Do You Appreciate the Job that Other People Do?
Do you have an appreciation for the job other people do?
Have any idea how difficult or “not fun” some other people’s jobs are? Have you even tried to do what they do?
Well, it’s not rocket science, but this weekend I had to do things that frankly I just don’t do, cause someone else does them for me. I had some truly great house guests this past week, while Stephanie was out of town for 8 days on a trip with some friends. Nothing unusual during the time my guests were here, but the stuff started when they left, and I knew Steph was coming home.
As of today, I have a newfound appreciation for what my wife does around the house that I simply don’t. Now I’m no slacker, but we’ve always had this deal that the outside is mine, the inside is hers. But I knew that I couldn’t leave the house the same after three guys stayed in it all week, taking tequila shots and watching stand up comedy until late in the night….
So here’s what I did Sunday…….
- Stripped the linens off all the beds
- Washed and dried them, even put a little bleach and fabric softner in there, not sure if that’s correct but did it my way.
- Then went back and actually put the linens on the bed, to the best of my ability, including replacing all 36 pillows that are normally stacked on there that I have no idea how to do.
- Filled and ran the dishwasher and emptied it too.
- Washed all the towels, folded them and put them in their actual place, even hung the decorative ones….
- Washed several other loads of clothes, mine frankly, and didn’t ruin anything.
- Cleaned the countertop in the kitchen.
- Actually, dry mopped the floors downstairs, and vacuumed the carpet in the bedrooms.
- Changed the cat litter for the third time this week as well
Now, I think Steph can do this in her sleep, for me it took all day, and was not only exhausting but kinda satisfying. Knowing she would walk in about 10pm, and after an obligatory side hug, she would go into full inspection mode. I didn’t score 100, but at least I didn’t get yelled at….she was up early re-doing much of my intense workload.
What’s the point? Shouldn’t all spouses help each other? Indeed they should, and I often do, but never to this level. Strip the bed, you kidding me? I’d rather wrestle an alligator than try to put the fitted sheet on by myself. But this morning, I feel good about what I did, and have a truly higher appreciation for what she does to manage our household. And I think she appreciated the random act of kindness.
So do you know what everyone else does at your facility? Any idea how hard working in the kitchen is, managing orders, plating, expediting, washing dishes? How about you as a General Manager or department head get back there and give it a try? Shorthanded? Jump in there and help get things done. Want to know how hard it is to get in a hole and fix an irrigation leak? At least go see for yourself, so you can better appreciate what your people do. Hey, it’s no walk in the park to get to the Club at 5am, pull carts to set up for a large event, and get everything staged. That stuff doesn’t just happen, people have to do it. So go see what they do and how they do it. Learn from them and appreciate just how dedicated they actually are.
I survived, but also know that I can get these things done anytime I need or want to. I’m better today for doing it, and Stephanie actually acts like she likes me this morning, which is a huge plus.
Now Go Get Em, and Have Fun, Leave Happy!!



